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Danette Vetter's avatar

I read your story and about your husband and am so sorry for your loss. It is like waves that overtake you but with time they become smaller and further apart only to have a tidal wave show up from time to time. Being a widow is like nothing that can be described. Our “person” is half of us and to move forward and find purpose is so hard. The pain is acute. I lost my husband in 2020 during the pandemic to pancreatic adenocarcinoma which was brutal for him and he lasted 2 days short of 6 months, and took my soul with him. Your writing and description is spot on. I am a RN of many years and was gutted. I hope you find more moments of comfort and more memories of all the good times. I always say how grateful I was to have mine for 21 years and our daughter, now 24. My heart and love for your healing through grief are being sent to you.

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Rosi Golan's avatar

Thank you Danette, and I am so sorry you went through something similar. I appreciate you sharing with me, and feeling less alone out here. x

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Debbie Wissel's avatar

So beautiful. ❤️

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Livia's avatar

Sending you love💓

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Cheyenne Ogden's avatar

love you both, Rosi <3

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Filiz S's avatar

This is beautiful. In its incredible sadness and heaviness it is beautiful. Thank you for sharing Rosi. Sending you love. ❤️❤️❤️ Here’s to you and Jeremy 💫💫💫

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Jedd Hughes's avatar

Sending you love and light Rosi.

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G.'s avatar

My love to you❤️sweetheart.

Thank you for sharing your deepest feelings.

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Mike Adamson's avatar

My sympathies and a wish that you find courage and strength as you embark on your altered journey.

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Valley James's avatar

Tears streaming down my face, thank you for so vulnerably sharing your grief with us, Rosi. My heart is with you. 🫶

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Danette Vetter's avatar

I read your story and about your husband and am so sorry for your loss. It is like waves that overtake you but with time they become smaller and further apart only to have a tidal wave show up from time to time. Being a widow is like nothing that can be described. Our “person” is half of us and to move forward and find purpose is so hard. The pain is acute. I lost my husband in 2020 during the pandemic to pancreatic adenocarcinoma which was brutal for him and he lasted 2 days short of 6 months, and took my soul with him. Your writing and description is spot on. I am a RN of many years and was gutted. I hope you find more moments of comfort and more memories of all the good times. I always say how grateful I was to have mine for 21 years and our daughter, now 24. My heart and love for your healing through grief are being sent to you.

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